Why Chastity?

Before listing some key reasons, let’s emphasize that chastity encompasses more than just caging a penis. Submissive men with great self-control can be perfectly chaste through obedience alone, a very impressive feat. Dominant men may also prefer a sub with an unusually small penis to have it fully visible. So with both options (caging and pure obedience) in mind, here goes:

Ownership: It reflects someone’s ownership over your body. He decides when it’s right for you to climax. Your orgasms are secondary. It is about the fact that you have ceded control over them to the man who owns your body. He can decide to have you beat off on a whim, or deny it for discipline.
Arousal: Chastity will make you unusually horny. Being unable to release that sexual tension makes you sexually charged. Your feelings of sexual attraction are revved up, and you become more open to new sexual experiences. Paradoxically, you feel more like a sexual person than when you were free. You are always in a state of readiness.
Realignment: Chastity leads to drastic changes in sexual behavior. Being unable to jerk off leads to exploring other forms of sexual activity, such as focusing on your ass, mouth, and nipples (and male breasts for those who have them).
Self-Control: This is particularly true when chastity is achieved through pure obedience. For those unprepared for this leap, who cannot control their own urges, a cage is like a bike with training wheels. Your key-holder can help you learn the virtues of chastity, to the point where you are eventually able to exercise full self-control. Admittedly, some may never reach that point, and may need to remain caged.
Role Clarity: You enjoy being in a relationship characterized by well-defined and contrasting roles - Dominant and submissive, top and bottom. Sublimating a defining trait of masculine identity - seeing your penis small, limp, and useless except to pee - is psychologically potent. It helps you focus on serving your obviously more masculine partner, both in and out of bed. Especially when caged, it unmistakably signals no need for reciprocation. Your penis is clearly marked as not a sexual organ, focusing your partner’s attention on your ass, mouth, and nipples.

(Inspired by an illustrated post by @chastestories, but extensively rewritten to expand the concept beyond caging)

Do you have a chastity pic you would like to have the hamster world see? Send it to me and I'll add it to this blog.






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发布者 Chris51a
4 年 前
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Big38Ffan
Check my pics. I have a couple.
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maze141
maze141 4 年 前
I got chastity pics on my profile that you can check our :smile:
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DD_Rules 4 年 前
Chris51a : awesome, sounds like fun but I guess if you don't have a willing partner an online one would work too.
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Chris51a 出版商 4 年 前
DD_Rules : Chastity is a game my wife and I play, dom or slave depends on the day :smile:
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DD_Rules 4 年 前
Chris51a : sounds good, thanks for the advice. Are oyu currently being dominated by anyone? Male, female?
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Chris51a 出版商 4 年 前
DD_Rules : Do some searches for slaves or doms. Put a note in your profile that you are looking for someone to dominate you...
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DD_Rules 4 年 前
I've never worn one but it does sound rather stimulating. How would I find someone that would want to dominate me on xham and require me to wear one?
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