Chat Lines Then and Now
About a dozen years ago, I had just broken up with a girlfriend, and i was trapped in a job that didn't give me much free time to go out and meet anyone new. I tried some dating sites, but wasn't really coming up with anyone I liked. Then I saw an ad for a chatline.
I called, thinking I might meet someone, but quickly discovered it was nearly all masturbation and sexy talk. But that was OK too. I told them to masturbate a little harder or push a finger a little deeper, and they told me all kinds of things about their sex response. I learned a lot of stuff about female sexuality! Ultimately it helped me a lot in dating and hooking up with women in the flesh.
There were also some gay chat lines, but nothing for bisexuals, and one line where I even got kicked off for talking about it.
Here's what i learned 12 years ago:
EVERYBODY on the chat line has boobs the size of zeppelins or cocks like giant salamis. Right.
A big percentage of the women on there were college girls in dorms or slightly older women (30ish), especially at certain times of the day.
Women's fantasies are A LOT MORE violent than I even imagined! Even the girls I knew personally who were into S&M didn't give me a clue what some women jill off to in their heads. Being k**napped, overpowered, made to cry and feel terrible, were all big turn-ons to some women (and remember, this is only SOME women). Weirdly, most women wanted it done to them, but some women wanted to do it to other women they knew. One even gave me the name of her co-worker whom she used to dream about a*****ing!
BDSM was big. Dungeon fantasies and even medical exam room scenes were really intense for a lot of the girls. The Evil gynecology clinic had a lot of business.
A lot of women are into age play, which kind of creeps me out a little. The most common was the Daddy Fantasy, where I'd roll play a "bad daddy" The girls usually came pretty hard. Creepier still were the few women who would really get into it and start to cry. I think they were reliving actual abuse and I found that really disturbing.
Some women wanted to be the abusers, and that also was a little disturbing. I wonder if they were also acting out some kind of actual abuse they suffered? I hope working it out with a stranger helped get it out.
The nicest age play, for me, anyway, was talking about early experiences, real of fantasized, innocent "playing doctor" kind of stuff, but I still prefer to not mix young age with sex.
A lot of women had lesbian fantasies or claimed to be bisexual. (lesbian friends tell me that a lot of younger girls say it just to make themselves sound daring). But they really preferred talking to men about it, so I don't know if it was for real, or just to turn men on.
Male Bisexuality was a BIG NO-NO. Most women disliked the idea of male bisex (or any kind of sex that didn't involve them), and the women who claimed to be bisexual themselves REALLY HATED bisexual guys. I don't know if they felt it was competition, but they wanted their men as manly straight men, hungry for pussy.
A few of the women were really men. They usually faked high pitched voices, and often claimed to be high school girls.
Since I'm pretty adventurous and willing to try anything once, especially if it's all talk, I could usually please several women in one night, and myself a few times, too.
Chat Lines Today
I was pretty bored during lockdown, and decided to see if the lines were still as much fun as they used to be. There are a lot fewer numbers than there used to be, but an on-line search comes up with a few, so I called a few last week. Most of the lines have free trials for 15-30 minutes, and a few for 40 minutes. Some of the lines seem really expensive compared what they used to be.
This is what I Learned Today:
Everyone still has titanic tits and dicks.
I didn't really find any women who were as explicit about their fantasies as they used to be. Nearly all the women give pretty generic messages just describing their bodies and talking about being "open minded" but none of them could tell what open minded meant. Some had pretty generic stuff like "men who make me come" Even when I tried to connect, they didn't have any real sex fantasies.
Mostly, they just describe their bodies, but with so much detail, I think that WAS their sex fantasy.
Some women just said "Hi I'm bored." WHY WOULD ANYONE respond to that?! They typically had the youngest voices.
Overall, the women seemed older than they used to be. Some were married and middle aged.
The Daddy Fantasy is still popular. Some women asked for "age play" but without being specific.
Race Play seems to be a new thing. Mostly white women demanding black guys, but also some white guys who fantasized about being cuckolded by black guys.
No Sex Talk-- Why the hell would anyone call a sex chat line for a "normal" conversation? But they are there. They're usually really rude about not accepting talk from "perverts", but on these lines, they are the perverts. Do they realize men are paying for their time on the line? It's incredibly rude and selfish, but they're there. (In the old days, there was occasionally a girl asking for "clean" conversations. I always ended up having phone sex with them! They just wanted to be sure that they'd get a verbal guy who knew how to talk sexy, not just a mad masturbator.)
Women still HATE Bisexual guys! Not quite as much, fortunately. Some have fantasies about seeing their boyfriends or husbands roughly "turned out." So you may want to listen to what your girlfriend is saying in her sleep.
If women are still fantasizing about lesbian lust, they're not sharing it with guys on these lines anymore.
A lot of the guys are older and not very creative. I don't know what they really wanted to talk about besides measuring penises.
There are more guys on these lines now. Some of the lines even ask if you want to talk to women or women AND men. Some are still putting on a female voice and pretending to be school girls, but others are gay, bi or bi-curious (I imagine most are just fantasizing, really). A lot of them want to be feminized, or are cross dressers (at least on line).
There appear to be a few more more trans people on the lines.
There's more talk about "Family Fun." This appears to be more from the central part of the country than the coasts. Not my cup of tea, thanks.
Some lines have people who are drunk, high or crazy! I wonder if they call the line when they're sober?
My experience last week was mostly just frustrating. I spent hours going through hundreds of people saying not much more than "Hi, I'm hot. Talk to me." Maybe I just called the wrong numbers, or called at the wrong time (Timing is a big thing! What I remember from 12 years ago was that a lot of women seem to masturbate in the mornings and want hot, fast chat to get off and star the day. But evenings, especially on weekends, girls would take time and really share the things that made them cum the hardest).
Maybe the new generation of wet-fingers are tapping computer keyboards, not telephones anymore.
Too bad, It was a lot of fun at the time..
I called, thinking I might meet someone, but quickly discovered it was nearly all masturbation and sexy talk. But that was OK too. I told them to masturbate a little harder or push a finger a little deeper, and they told me all kinds of things about their sex response. I learned a lot of stuff about female sexuality! Ultimately it helped me a lot in dating and hooking up with women in the flesh.
There were also some gay chat lines, but nothing for bisexuals, and one line where I even got kicked off for talking about it.
Here's what i learned 12 years ago:
EVERYBODY on the chat line has boobs the size of zeppelins or cocks like giant salamis. Right.
A big percentage of the women on there were college girls in dorms or slightly older women (30ish), especially at certain times of the day.
Women's fantasies are A LOT MORE violent than I even imagined! Even the girls I knew personally who were into S&M didn't give me a clue what some women jill off to in their heads. Being k**napped, overpowered, made to cry and feel terrible, were all big turn-ons to some women (and remember, this is only SOME women). Weirdly, most women wanted it done to them, but some women wanted to do it to other women they knew. One even gave me the name of her co-worker whom she used to dream about a*****ing!
BDSM was big. Dungeon fantasies and even medical exam room scenes were really intense for a lot of the girls. The Evil gynecology clinic had a lot of business.
A lot of women are into age play, which kind of creeps me out a little. The most common was the Daddy Fantasy, where I'd roll play a "bad daddy" The girls usually came pretty hard. Creepier still were the few women who would really get into it and start to cry. I think they were reliving actual abuse and I found that really disturbing.
Some women wanted to be the abusers, and that also was a little disturbing. I wonder if they were also acting out some kind of actual abuse they suffered? I hope working it out with a stranger helped get it out.
The nicest age play, for me, anyway, was talking about early experiences, real of fantasized, innocent "playing doctor" kind of stuff, but I still prefer to not mix young age with sex.
A lot of women had lesbian fantasies or claimed to be bisexual. (lesbian friends tell me that a lot of younger girls say it just to make themselves sound daring). But they really preferred talking to men about it, so I don't know if it was for real, or just to turn men on.
Male Bisexuality was a BIG NO-NO. Most women disliked the idea of male bisex (or any kind of sex that didn't involve them), and the women who claimed to be bisexual themselves REALLY HATED bisexual guys. I don't know if they felt it was competition, but they wanted their men as manly straight men, hungry for pussy.
A few of the women were really men. They usually faked high pitched voices, and often claimed to be high school girls.
Since I'm pretty adventurous and willing to try anything once, especially if it's all talk, I could usually please several women in one night, and myself a few times, too.
Chat Lines Today
I was pretty bored during lockdown, and decided to see if the lines were still as much fun as they used to be. There are a lot fewer numbers than there used to be, but an on-line search comes up with a few, so I called a few last week. Most of the lines have free trials for 15-30 minutes, and a few for 40 minutes. Some of the lines seem really expensive compared what they used to be.
This is what I Learned Today:
Everyone still has titanic tits and dicks.
I didn't really find any women who were as explicit about their fantasies as they used to be. Nearly all the women give pretty generic messages just describing their bodies and talking about being "open minded" but none of them could tell what open minded meant. Some had pretty generic stuff like "men who make me come" Even when I tried to connect, they didn't have any real sex fantasies.
Mostly, they just describe their bodies, but with so much detail, I think that WAS their sex fantasy.
Some women just said "Hi I'm bored." WHY WOULD ANYONE respond to that?! They typically had the youngest voices.
Overall, the women seemed older than they used to be. Some were married and middle aged.
The Daddy Fantasy is still popular. Some women asked for "age play" but without being specific.
Race Play seems to be a new thing. Mostly white women demanding black guys, but also some white guys who fantasized about being cuckolded by black guys.
No Sex Talk-- Why the hell would anyone call a sex chat line for a "normal" conversation? But they are there. They're usually really rude about not accepting talk from "perverts", but on these lines, they are the perverts. Do they realize men are paying for their time on the line? It's incredibly rude and selfish, but they're there. (In the old days, there was occasionally a girl asking for "clean" conversations. I always ended up having phone sex with them! They just wanted to be sure that they'd get a verbal guy who knew how to talk sexy, not just a mad masturbator.)
Women still HATE Bisexual guys! Not quite as much, fortunately. Some have fantasies about seeing their boyfriends or husbands roughly "turned out." So you may want to listen to what your girlfriend is saying in her sleep.
If women are still fantasizing about lesbian lust, they're not sharing it with guys on these lines anymore.
A lot of the guys are older and not very creative. I don't know what they really wanted to talk about besides measuring penises.
There are more guys on these lines now. Some of the lines even ask if you want to talk to women or women AND men. Some are still putting on a female voice and pretending to be school girls, but others are gay, bi or bi-curious (I imagine most are just fantasizing, really). A lot of them want to be feminized, or are cross dressers (at least on line).
There appear to be a few more more trans people on the lines.
There's more talk about "Family Fun." This appears to be more from the central part of the country than the coasts. Not my cup of tea, thanks.
Some lines have people who are drunk, high or crazy! I wonder if they call the line when they're sober?
My experience last week was mostly just frustrating. I spent hours going through hundreds of people saying not much more than "Hi, I'm hot. Talk to me." Maybe I just called the wrong numbers, or called at the wrong time (Timing is a big thing! What I remember from 12 years ago was that a lot of women seem to masturbate in the mornings and want hot, fast chat to get off and star the day. But evenings, especially on weekends, girls would take time and really share the things that made them cum the hardest).
Maybe the new generation of wet-fingers are tapping computer keyboards, not telephones anymore.
Too bad, It was a lot of fun at the time..
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