How I control my Husband
We have been together for almost 30 years and our sex life was simply boring.
We have tried spicing it up with toys and have some really good ones, Gags, a Sex swing, cuffs, restraints, dildos and vibrators, we act out our fantasies together and alone, however it still wasn’t enough, neither of us are interested in inviting someone to join us but we have made pretend scenarios, where I catch him with a neighbour or he comes home and finds me with the odd job man.
Still it wasn’t enough to really spice up our love lives.
Then one day as he bent down naked I stuck my vibrator up his ass and to both our surprise and shock he liked it, It hurt him but after the initial shock he said don’t stop, soon he was begging for more, he came as I hit his prostate, we didn’t know that was a thing until we googled it later.
Next time we were making love he asked for it again but because I thought it a dirty thing I refused.
Couple of weeks later he asked if he could try it himself and I agreed, so off he went to watch porn while I was in the shower with my waterproof vibrator, I aim the hot water onto my clitoris and with all the power of my dildo I orgasmed a couple of times, as I got out of the shower I heard moans so looking in the bedroom door I was just intime to see him cum, the vibrator was pushed right up his ass and 3 spurts of cum sprayed up onto his chest, he opened his eyes and saw me looking, he said OMG that was fantastic then he noticed my look of shock, after he got out of the shower he asked why was I displeased? I thought about it and came to the conclusion that I always held that anal sex was dirty, we didn’t bring it up again for a few months then one day I wanted to go to the Mall with him but he had organised a round of Golf, he said “tell you what! Stick the dildo in me and I’ll cancel the Golf and take you out shopping for some new clothes” What girl could resist Ha Ha, an hour later and he was satisfied, I actually enjoyed seeing him so aroused,
While eating our meal later I got to thinking how could I use his fetish to get more of what I want.
A month or so passed and I had a plan, I would trade his pleasure for my wants.
And so it began!
He got his pleasure from me after he agreed to my requests, I didn’t tell him I was rewarding him but he soon figured it out, he became more eager to go shopping, do chores, agree to new decorating, he even started to cook for me. Socks were no longer left on the bedroom floor, wet towels were put in the wash basket and the bathroom sink no longer was left full of face shavings.
One day we got talking about his new ways and he said he would really like to try other things, He told me he had been thinking of how to please me to get a reward, I had been thinking too, I asked him if he wanted to try being my slave for a month or two, he liked this idea and asked what was involved, I told him his Penis would belong to me, I would control his ability to orgasm, he would get rewarded when he pleased me and punished when he didn’t, without a moment hesitation he agreed. A big mistake as he would soon discover!
He left his half drank coffee on the sink top, I called him and told him never again do that! He didn’t understand what was happening but knew something was up.
later that evening I poured us a glass of wine lowered the lighting and cuddled up to him, this is always a signal that we would make love, I held his hand and put it inside my PJ’s “make me cum” I asked, he rubbed me until I orgasmed, then expecting we would make love he started removing his clothes, I stood up and shouted “ Who told you to do that?”
no orgasm for you because you made a mess in the kitchen, it suddenly dawned on him what was going on and he said “sorry” “sorry what?” I said
unsure of how to reply he said “Sorry luv”
“not luv, it’s Sorry my Lady”
he realised at that moment that he was my slave.
Over the next few months he has been punished for doing wrong with a little reward sometimes if he pleases me.
A list of punishments.
I give him the idea that we are making love then I change my mind.
I bought a ruler and spank him until he has a pink mark on his behind.
I put small elastic bands around his cock starting near the head and working down his shaft to force the blood out so he cannot get an erection, it must be removed after a few minutes as stopping the blood for long will cause major problems so always less than 10 minutes.
I let the wax from a birthday candle drip onto his balls.
Menthol oil dripped into his Masterbator instead of lube it stings the head of his Penis.
I get a few ice cubes and place them in a bowl of water to take off the sharp edges then I order him to insert them into his asshole, you can see him shiver but usually not bad enough to stop him getting an erection.
Seeing him have an erection without being instructed always gets him a good few lashes with my ruler.
I tie him up and leave him naked blindfolded with earplugs in so he has no idea what will happen next, it scares him not knowing if it’s something good or bad that will be coming his way.
I tell him to shower then turn the water to cold and forbid him to move.
I make him get hard then order him to stop just before his orgasm.
I discovered something called a ruined orgasm, where just as he is starting to ejaculate I make him stop by squeezing the tip of his penis then order him to get dressed.
I bought him a Chastity Cage and make him wear it for anything from an hour up to 3 days only unlocking it to allow him to shower.
I make him watch porn for an hour but forbid him to get an erection, if he fails he isn't allowed to sleep in our bed.
I have always known that once he has cum he can’t stand being rubbed anymore so I have refused to let him stop, He actually cried one time and begged to be allowed to go clean up.
I have made him eat his own cum, he hates this, he says it’s one of the worst things I do to him but when he has been prevented from cumming he will offer to do it in exchange for a climax.
I made him cum into a small bottle and took it away, he didn't know where it was, I had slipped it in the freezer where it stayed until the next time I was going to allow him to cum, I took it out the freezer a few minutes before he was ordered to get hard and told him if he wanted to cum he would need a refill, he begged for me not to make him swallow it but I said, " it's your choice" he decided he would drink it just so he could ejaculate, so right after he swallowed I told him he wasn't allowed to cum after all, he wasn't happy but because he knows not to complain he thanked me for filling him up, that brought him a reward a few days later when in the middle of his teams match I told him to Masterbate and if he could cum in 2 minutes he was allowed, it took him a minute and a half LOL
I let him make love to me every now and again and even cum in me, he was thrilled until I made him lick me to orgasm right afterwards but he did it as he knew if he didn’t he would be punished badly.
I like him to know I'm horny, sometimes I message him and tell him I'm masterbating while he is at work.
When we were younger he recovered quickly but now once he has orgasmed that is it for the day so another punishment is to order him to cum again an hour or so later, he finds this very difficult, he has no problem getting erect but actually ejaculating is a struggle, if he fails he suffers.
I tie his cock to his balls with a ribbon and make him wear it all day.
Things that bring rewards.
Treating me like a Princess.
Making me orgasm while he gets nothing.
Cleaning the bath toilet and hand basin.
Cleaning windows.
Making Beds
Washing dishes by hand not just loading the dishwasher.
Taking me out for meals.
Brushing out and shampooing my car.
Buying me little gifts like a new perfume or chocolates.
Never answering back.
I like getting my feet rubbed but he dislikes touching my feet, he does it now without even being asked.
I have him under my control, he makes my enjoyment his number one priority, I know some things I do as a punishment he actually enjoys so I can sometimes see him do things to annoy me in the hope he gets the right punishment, sometimes he does sometimes he really gets punished in ways he dislikes.
It is a balance thing, punish him too often he gets upset, reward him too often and he gets complacent, the trick is for him never to know what is coming his way.
We are both getting a lot out of our new lifestyle and this is making our life together both interesting and fun.
We have tried spicing it up with toys and have some really good ones, Gags, a Sex swing, cuffs, restraints, dildos and vibrators, we act out our fantasies together and alone, however it still wasn’t enough, neither of us are interested in inviting someone to join us but we have made pretend scenarios, where I catch him with a neighbour or he comes home and finds me with the odd job man.
Still it wasn’t enough to really spice up our love lives.
Then one day as he bent down naked I stuck my vibrator up his ass and to both our surprise and shock he liked it, It hurt him but after the initial shock he said don’t stop, soon he was begging for more, he came as I hit his prostate, we didn’t know that was a thing until we googled it later.
Next time we were making love he asked for it again but because I thought it a dirty thing I refused.
Couple of weeks later he asked if he could try it himself and I agreed, so off he went to watch porn while I was in the shower with my waterproof vibrator, I aim the hot water onto my clitoris and with all the power of my dildo I orgasmed a couple of times, as I got out of the shower I heard moans so looking in the bedroom door I was just intime to see him cum, the vibrator was pushed right up his ass and 3 spurts of cum sprayed up onto his chest, he opened his eyes and saw me looking, he said OMG that was fantastic then he noticed my look of shock, after he got out of the shower he asked why was I displeased? I thought about it and came to the conclusion that I always held that anal sex was dirty, we didn’t bring it up again for a few months then one day I wanted to go to the Mall with him but he had organised a round of Golf, he said “tell you what! Stick the dildo in me and I’ll cancel the Golf and take you out shopping for some new clothes” What girl could resist Ha Ha, an hour later and he was satisfied, I actually enjoyed seeing him so aroused,
While eating our meal later I got to thinking how could I use his fetish to get more of what I want.
A month or so passed and I had a plan, I would trade his pleasure for my wants.
And so it began!
He got his pleasure from me after he agreed to my requests, I didn’t tell him I was rewarding him but he soon figured it out, he became more eager to go shopping, do chores, agree to new decorating, he even started to cook for me. Socks were no longer left on the bedroom floor, wet towels were put in the wash basket and the bathroom sink no longer was left full of face shavings.
One day we got talking about his new ways and he said he would really like to try other things, He told me he had been thinking of how to please me to get a reward, I had been thinking too, I asked him if he wanted to try being my slave for a month or two, he liked this idea and asked what was involved, I told him his Penis would belong to me, I would control his ability to orgasm, he would get rewarded when he pleased me and punished when he didn’t, without a moment hesitation he agreed. A big mistake as he would soon discover!
He left his half drank coffee on the sink top, I called him and told him never again do that! He didn’t understand what was happening but knew something was up.
later that evening I poured us a glass of wine lowered the lighting and cuddled up to him, this is always a signal that we would make love, I held his hand and put it inside my PJ’s “make me cum” I asked, he rubbed me until I orgasmed, then expecting we would make love he started removing his clothes, I stood up and shouted “ Who told you to do that?”
no orgasm for you because you made a mess in the kitchen, it suddenly dawned on him what was going on and he said “sorry” “sorry what?” I said
unsure of how to reply he said “Sorry luv”
“not luv, it’s Sorry my Lady”
he realised at that moment that he was my slave.
Over the next few months he has been punished for doing wrong with a little reward sometimes if he pleases me.
A list of punishments.
I give him the idea that we are making love then I change my mind.
I bought a ruler and spank him until he has a pink mark on his behind.
I put small elastic bands around his cock starting near the head and working down his shaft to force the blood out so he cannot get an erection, it must be removed after a few minutes as stopping the blood for long will cause major problems so always less than 10 minutes.
I let the wax from a birthday candle drip onto his balls.
Menthol oil dripped into his Masterbator instead of lube it stings the head of his Penis.
I get a few ice cubes and place them in a bowl of water to take off the sharp edges then I order him to insert them into his asshole, you can see him shiver but usually not bad enough to stop him getting an erection.
Seeing him have an erection without being instructed always gets him a good few lashes with my ruler.
I tie him up and leave him naked blindfolded with earplugs in so he has no idea what will happen next, it scares him not knowing if it’s something good or bad that will be coming his way.
I tell him to shower then turn the water to cold and forbid him to move.
I make him get hard then order him to stop just before his orgasm.
I discovered something called a ruined orgasm, where just as he is starting to ejaculate I make him stop by squeezing the tip of his penis then order him to get dressed.
I bought him a Chastity Cage and make him wear it for anything from an hour up to 3 days only unlocking it to allow him to shower.
I make him watch porn for an hour but forbid him to get an erection, if he fails he isn't allowed to sleep in our bed.
I have always known that once he has cum he can’t stand being rubbed anymore so I have refused to let him stop, He actually cried one time and begged to be allowed to go clean up.
I have made him eat his own cum, he hates this, he says it’s one of the worst things I do to him but when he has been prevented from cumming he will offer to do it in exchange for a climax.
I made him cum into a small bottle and took it away, he didn't know where it was, I had slipped it in the freezer where it stayed until the next time I was going to allow him to cum, I took it out the freezer a few minutes before he was ordered to get hard and told him if he wanted to cum he would need a refill, he begged for me not to make him swallow it but I said, " it's your choice" he decided he would drink it just so he could ejaculate, so right after he swallowed I told him he wasn't allowed to cum after all, he wasn't happy but because he knows not to complain he thanked me for filling him up, that brought him a reward a few days later when in the middle of his teams match I told him to Masterbate and if he could cum in 2 minutes he was allowed, it took him a minute and a half LOL
I let him make love to me every now and again and even cum in me, he was thrilled until I made him lick me to orgasm right afterwards but he did it as he knew if he didn’t he would be punished badly.
I like him to know I'm horny, sometimes I message him and tell him I'm masterbating while he is at work.
When we were younger he recovered quickly but now once he has orgasmed that is it for the day so another punishment is to order him to cum again an hour or so later, he finds this very difficult, he has no problem getting erect but actually ejaculating is a struggle, if he fails he suffers.
I tie his cock to his balls with a ribbon and make him wear it all day.
Things that bring rewards.
Treating me like a Princess.
Making me orgasm while he gets nothing.
Cleaning the bath toilet and hand basin.
Cleaning windows.
Making Beds
Washing dishes by hand not just loading the dishwasher.
Taking me out for meals.
Brushing out and shampooing my car.
Buying me little gifts like a new perfume or chocolates.
Never answering back.
I like getting my feet rubbed but he dislikes touching my feet, he does it now without even being asked.
I have him under my control, he makes my enjoyment his number one priority, I know some things I do as a punishment he actually enjoys so I can sometimes see him do things to annoy me in the hope he gets the right punishment, sometimes he does sometimes he really gets punished in ways he dislikes.
It is a balance thing, punish him too often he gets upset, reward him too often and he gets complacent, the trick is for him never to know what is coming his way.
We are both getting a lot out of our new lifestyle and this is making our life together both interesting and fun.
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