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Sex is not always “nice,” and sexual fantasy and behavior reflects the complexity of humans, within the complexity of their social, historical, and physical environments. Sigmund Freud suggested that degradation was a common and sometimes necessary part of sexuality, suggesting that degradation was sometimes a means of overcoming fear that might inhibit eroticism.In 1954, in his analysis of the underpinnings of bias and racism, Gordon Allport referenced the preoccupation with sex and the black man’s penis, suggesting that it was not the physical size of the penis, but the “psychological” size of the penis that was the fascination and obsession..