Dominant vs Domineering

DOMINANT
Someone who is in control in a positive and assertive way.

Means having power and influence over others in a confident and assertive manner. A dominant person is someone who is able to take charge/control and make decisions WITHOUT being overbearing or aggressive.

In a romantic relationship, being dominant can be a desirable trait for some people, indicating confidence and strength. A dominant partner may be seen as strong, confident, and able to take charge.


DOMINEERING
Someone who is in control in a negative and oppressive way.

Means exerting control over others in a harsh and oppressive way. A domineering person is someone who uses their power and influence to manipulate and intimidate others. They are often feared and resented for their bullying tactics and lack of empathy.

Being domineering is a negative trait that is associated with controlling, manipulative, and abusive behavior. A person who is domineering uses their power and authority to intimidate and bully others. They often disregard the feelings and opinions of others and impose their will on them. Being domineering is a sign of insecurity and a lack of confidence, as it stems from a need to control others in order to feel powerful.

In a romantic relationship if a partner is too domineering, they may be seen as controlling, manipulative, and unwilling to compromise. Seen as a negative trait, indicating a lack of respect and empathy. This can lead to an unhealthy and abusive relationship.

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So...
I'm gonna try and put it so you guys understand it -
You know when you say "I'm straight, but I'd fuck him"?
That's usually you responding to a male with a quiet ascertive way, someone who has a dominant presence by just being without even saying a word. Or when he speaks, no matter how soft or loud, everyone listens.
Think Cary Grant, Mitchum, Newman, Banderas, McConaughey.

You know that kid in school you never liked, that was crude and who had to buy and domineer people to be his friends? And thought that gave him permission to bully everyone else? Because "See?! Everyone likes me!"
Think The Big Orange Cheeto in US politics.That's domineering.
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10 月 前
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Jemahs 出版商 2 月 前
arevrn : Agree! 
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arevrn 2 月 前
Clarifying the difference is important. Sometimes, people confuse the two, thinking domineering is just them being dominant "just a bit more". And, if they decide to cross this line, things get ugly. And they shouldn't cross that line, ever.
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salar1963
salar1963 10 月 前
Thank you for highlighting the difference between being dominant and domineering. A woman should always be able to lean back safely and be seen.
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justfarmdoghank
justfarmdoghank 10 月 前
oh so true.. glad this is being brought up.. written and spoken about .. it is a vary importent point to understand .. and i am referring to understanding yourself  by the time it might be something that will affect a relationship ... but then again ..  i have gotten into trouble for being too nice.  lol   
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