History & Future of the Kellykins2u Page :)

Hello My Hammys! :)

First of all, I just want to say a big "Thank you!" to everyone who has made xHam fun for me. Even with all the craziness that goes on, good friends are what keep me coming back (okay, and free porn too, lol).

Well, hmmm, let's see, this is kind of a random update, but I thought it would be good to just let everyone know what I think about xHam in general, and what I think about my own page overall on here.

When I first made a page on here, I thought "Oh, it'll be a nice little naughty corner of the interwebz for me to watch some videos, look at pics, maybe even chat with a few people, but that'll probably be all that happens."

After seeing some really great profiles of people, I decided to make mine similar to the ones that I liked reading. Yes, I actually do read people's profiles and about me's, I'm weird like that :P

So, I added some more info, added a blog of random FAQs, and a gallery of pics. I found that the number of quality people I started chatting with on xHam went up quite a bit, but so did the number of just random msgs. It's kind of a catch 22, especially once a girl puts up pics on her page.

I'm sure most people on xHam know this, but it goes doubly true for girls - once you have a gallery of self pics, the invites and msgs start flooding in.

I was barely a few weeks into starting a profile and it wasn't uncommon for me to have as many as 20 msgs and 20 invite requests every single day.

For a while, I admit, I did go on a few "friend collecting" sprees just to clear out my box.

I've always tried to be as nice and polite as possible to every one on here, so with that in mind, as well as convenience, it was easier to just "Accept All" because it seemed nicer than "Delete All".

Another thing that I have always tried to do, is to comment/reply back to everyone who is nice enough to leave comments for me. And that in itself can take up a lot of time too, especially since I don't do the "cut and paste" responses, I actually try to thank people specifically and in response to the comments they have left me.

It was still taking me a long time to answer all the requests, and even longer to actually try to check/read through everyone's profile to decide if they had a good page worth adding.

I always thought "Oh, I can just delete the bad friends later." Except I never really got around to filtering through my friends list again because I was too busy answering current msgs and things, in addition to my own site surfing.

I still haven't gotten around to this. Mostly because I dread having to spend so much time on it.

That's when I decided to turn off my "Accept Invites" option, simply because I didn't have the time/energy to check out every single request to try and filter through the spam profiles to find the actual good profiles.

Things got noticeably easier for me after that. It was much more apparent who had actually read through my page/blog based on the kind of msgs I got from people, and it seemed to cut down on a fair amount of spam as well.

Even at that, I still get a lot of msgs each day. Whenever I login, there are usually anywhere from 25-35 msgs waiting for me, and thats on a normal day. If its the weekend and I don't come back until Monday, there can be as many as 40-60.

I'm not trying to say "Don't msg me", lol, I'm just trying to give you an idea of how much time it takes for me to try and catch up to everyone, and to give honest thoughts and feedback to you all.

Again, I've never been into the "cut and paste" responses, so I really do try hard to give all of you as much equal time as I can.

I think you all know how much I like chatting with you, my Hammy's, based on my msgs to you, as well as my random "Q and A" sessions that I throw out sometimes, lol.

Like I said, those of you who are my friends, you are what keep xHam fun for me. Not just in terms of recommending hot vids/pics, but for chatting and being nice.

I have literally talked about everything from "anal sex" to "lasagna recipes" with you guys on here, and that's why I keep coming back :)

So, what happens from here?

Well, if you're still reading this really long blog, here's a few notes on things from me that I'll try to address for what I see as the future of my naughty little corner of the internet:



I know you guys would like more of these, and I know it's been a while since I've posted newer ones. I honestly do appreciate all the comments you guys have left for me, and I will try to post more pics every once in a while.

But please remember: I'm not an internet model, I don't have a super fancy camera, and I don't always have time to take/post pics regularly. I do have a life outside of xHam, where I have school, work, friends, etc, and those things get my first priority.

Also, I can appreciate and understand the requests I get for more "risque" pics, but to be 100% honest with you guys, that's probably not going to happen.

I still value my privacy a lot, and needless to say, putting up more "risque" pics is pretty much the shortest road possible to destroying that privacy, and would only open the floodgates even more to the crazy msgs we girls on xHam get.

I honestly feel like I have put enough of my real self on this site (between my pics and my blogs and my daily interactions with you guys) and I just don't feel the need to expand that by putting up anything naked.



This section will continue to grow as I find new vids/pics, and as all of my fun and naughty Hammy's recommend things to me :)

I try to add a variety of things that I enjoy, and I get the feeling that many of you use my page as a kind of "porn hub" for finding vids you like, which is pretty cool, since I often look at your guys' faves to find good vids too, hehe.

Hopefully as time goes on everyone will still enjoy coming by to visit my page not just to see what new faves I've added, but also to just say "Hi" and chat a bit :)



This is honestly how I spend 90% of my time on xHam, answering and chatting with all my Hammys on a day to day basis. If it sometimes takes a while for me to get back to you, please remember that there's usually a decent amount of you msging me, which is totally fine, but again, it just takes time to answer everyone properly.

Throw in a few phone calls, school work, emails, needing to eat, etc, and I can't always answer right away.

I apologize for these delays, but there's not much I can do about it, so um, deal with it, lol :P



As I said earlier, I really dread having to do a "mass purging of the list", but it might just end up happening one day.

If I do, it will be because... well, because I feel like it. It's as simple as that.

Please, for the love of God, do not flood me with a million "please don't delete me!" msgs.

If you're someone who already chats with me regularly, then you should know by now that I'm not going to delete you as a friend.



This little section is something I started way back when I first made my page, when I had no idea that I would eventually have a crazy porn filled page with tons of people dropping by all the time.

Are there more people I should/want/need to add to that list? Absolutely. I just haven't had the time to update it. Also, I don't want everyone to have to scroll down for 20 minutes just to be able to see the rest of my profile each time they stop by.

Eventually (maybe after #4 happens) I'll make an actual separate "Hammy All Stars Blog" with everyone who deserves to be there. But in the meantime, it is what it is.

Again, I can understand and appreciate all of you wanting to get to see/know more about me, but ultimately this is my page, and I get to decide what I do with it.

That's all for now. Sorry for the long blog, but it was easier to do it this way than to write to all of you individually over, and over, and over, and over.... :P

For anyone still reading, here's a great big boobie hug and a kiss for you *MUAH* :)

Also, just to see who reads this one, send me a PM and let me know what your favorite kind of pizza is, that way I'll know.

I'd rather get random msgs that say "Pepperoni and Cheese" than "hey slut, cum suck my 12" cock you dirty whore". ROFL