So that x of mine i was telling u about that doesn

ok in my last post i told u i was kind of talkin to an x of mine that never realy had time for me... well first i guess i should tell you more about him he isnt realy an x we have never dated we have been fucking on and off for like 3years now the sex is great i love talking with him and just being around him we both love to read and do read a lot of the same stuff but like ive said he never realy has time for me so its always been on and off

anyway.... ive been talking to him he wants to start up again and i want him i do but i know it wont last cuz he never has time for me im a freak ok im in bdsm i like rough sex well he likes all that but he also likes to swap couple sex 3 ways shit like that and ive had 3 ways fmf and mfm but ive never had couple sex and i think i would like to but idk i realy want someone i can keep useing not just on and off someone that has time for me

ive also been talking to a guy i met on here (u know who u r ;)i like him but ive never met him ive never met anyone from on here i have thought about it and i would like to c him and he isnt that far but far enough that idk if i realy want to start something with someone else ill never get to c

idk what to do so pls tell me what u think
发布者 Zedoary
11 年 前
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st_john_green
st_john_green 7 年 前
I think that if it makes you feel happy you should just go for it because you only live once. Be who you are, set boundaries, tell him how you feel, and see what he says. Your not a freak in my opinion at all you know what you want and thats awesome. I know with me and women I dont like to share and refuse to share. As for on again and off again relationships they can be fine if both people are on the same page. However I do not care for a woman who is always on again and off again because it is not only annoying it messes with ones emotions. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
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Malagigi
Malagigi 11 年 前
I agree. I feel that if it is something that will bring you happiness and joy, you should go for it. There is so much to life, yet so little chances that will actually give you this joy and happiness. If the guy is not that far, why don't you talk to him and speak it over with him. The worst you can do is want to meet and never make the chance to and wonder about it.

As for being into bdsm and wanting to have lots of sex, even if it is not with someone you love, does not mean that you are a freak. You should never feel bad about yourself no matter what. If you do, it can eat at you.

Just be yourself and dont let what others say about you get at you. I learned that the hard way in grade school. I hope that you can find time to enjoy yourself.
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lidelse
well honestly if the guy isn't that far and is willing to make time for you i say do it. distance can suck but if its something the person is willing to work around then it can be ok. plus you do deserve to have someone who understands you and isnt gong to just have you as part of a threesome or whatever
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