Why do guys like anal sex over vaginal sex? Woul

My guy tells me it's tighter around his penis. He also felt it was forbidden and many of his other partners would never let him, so it is a turn on for him. I don't mind anal as long as long as I can prepare for it in advance, you are well lubricated, enter very, very slowly. But based upon my experience most guys seem to want to do it to me-- often without asking--- as if you are going to sneak that one by a girl?

My first anal penetration was when I was in college. I was a freshman and my bf at the time was a senior. He asked me one night. I was so in love at the time I wanted to please him. Told him I was not sure and worried. I took a shower to get really clean. Still very nervous how it would feel. Would I bleed. He was gentle with me and he orally loved me all over and got me so turned on. He licked my anus.

His penis was normal size, but still big. He let his pre-cum drip onto my labia and down to my anus. He entered my vagina first and loved me normally. He rubbed around my clit and made me orgasm first. Then he pulled out and began to rub his wet tip against my anus. Slowly letting his pre-cum and my juice lubricate my anus until he pressed into me. I was tense and it hurt. His penis seemed so huge. He was so turned on and excited. I could tell he wanted it. I kept trying to relax my anus as he pressed his tip into me. His swollen tip finally popped into me and the initial pain lessened as his shaft was smaller then the tip. He took my pussy juice and made sure his shaft was lubricated. He entered me deeper and deeper. I was so nervous and trying so hard to relax my anus that it was not that enjoyable for me. He was so turned on. Especially when he started to move his tip to the entrance. I could feel the pressure as he tried to pull out and then would press into me. He seemed so excited. He was moaning. I was ready for him to be over, but he got rougher and faster. No matter how much I tried I did not find it all that enjoyable... He clearly was in heaven as he fucked my ass until he finally ejaculated into my ass.

I was so glad when I felt his penis soften and he slipped out of me. I felt like I had to p*o.

Would like to learn from other xHampster members what they think is the attraction?

As I say, I gladly give it to my man when he wants it. I love him and want him to turn to me for sex. Do not want him to ever turn to another girl for sex. Don't mind watching porn to get turned on, but want him to turn to me when he needs a girl. Guess I'm old fashion.

发布者 justenjoyingfantasy

9 年前

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JackEagle 8 年前

M, Anal sex is something to "be prepared" for as well as taken slowly. I hint at anal sex to my partner while fingering or licking pussy by massaging that lovely little starfish with my tounge or finger. If she clenches, I expect anal to be a no-go. But if there is a moan or a positive comment, I continue exploring and slip a smaller finger in to "test the waters" further. Changing to larger fingers helps relax and open. Even a well lubed thumb. After that it becomes a matter of attemping 2 or more lubed fingers. Using lubed graduated butt plugs can also be an option. The key is lube, relax and breath. This can all take SEVERAL minutes before inserting a cock. And anal is a forbidden fruit to be appreciated and cherrished. My ex-gf would use the butt plugs or a lifelike dildo warmed in hot water and lube if she had the desire for anal and I was unavailable. I also knew I was in for a treat when I saw a plug in her sexy ass. Just take it slow and experiment. MOST guys like their ass fingered as well. There are thousands of nerves there.as Cindy (my ex) pointed out. She would later suggest that we each insert a plug before sex, and later led to dildoes and even me receiving her strapon. That experimentation took over a year. Good luck.

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justenjoyingfantasy 出版商 9 年前

至 jahniannis : thank you for your thoughtful and detailed insights... I think we are both lucky to have great lovers who care about us. It seems the forbidden nature, the intimate nature and the tightness around the penis that seem to be what guys seek. I'm glad you have a partner that enjoys pleasing you and you her. xxx M

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jahniannis 9 年前

for me, probably like most guys, it is the forbidden fruit, and a different sensation when having good, sensual and caring anal sex with my wife. I fondly recall when we were still new with each other, she said, when i brushed my cockhead across her anus in my haste to make love to her.."it's an exit, NOT and entrance". We both had been married before, and my ex was very prudish is bes, and I came to find out her ex was very abusive. After a short time, when she knew that i valued her feelings and concerns in bed, she surprised me by actually initiating anal sex. I never asked, but women know their men, don't they? I used lots of vaseline and went super slow. It was such a turnon for me that I came inside her without even thrusting or pumping my cock in and out, just rested it there inside her ass and I began orgasming. Now, we like to have her use a vibrator to bring her off, and all i ever need to do is slowly insert first a well lubed finger, and when she has climaxed a couple times. I slowly push my penis in, usually no further than just past the head. I let it stay motionless until i have to cum, and that doesn't take long by then. I can feel the contractions when she is cumming, and just hearing and watching her bring me off without me having to pump in and out of her asshole. the tightness of her sphincter around my shaft is unbelievable, and by going that slow, I always want to bust my nut quickly. I have been pleasantly surprised at times when she pumps her hips against me and encourages me to fuck her, but even still, I go gently. we both love it. I even got her to use her skinny vibrator on my ass when she blows me, and told her that now i know how she feels with an invader lovingly inside. I think that patience and going slow are the keys to helping your lover love anal play. I always let her decide how fast or slow we go. and I also love to leave my softened cock inside her as long as possible, it just feels so good to me. we almost always fuck face to face, so we can hug and kiss afterwards in the afterglow of that good good sex. I also think i'm a lucky guy to have an understanding lover like her.

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