For The Ladies: Hard Fuckin', Or Sensual Lovi

I want to hear from all the ladies out there. Do you prefer a lover who will give you a good, hard fucking? Maybe some dirty talk, spanking, tying up etc. Or do you prefer to make love? Some kissing, passion, connection etc. I see three main types of sex; love making, sex, and fucking. I'll take a good, hard fucking almost any time over regular sex. Maybe if I have just woken up or something I'll take the sex though. But fucking is so much fun and gets the girl so engaged. I must say though, I prefer to make love to someone over anything. To find that deep connection and ravish each other in unbridled passion. Of course, this has to be with a select person and is a rarer occasion. Let me know what you think. How do you like to carry out the act?