It's true

So it's fucking true - my whore wife is cheating on me. Put a voice recorder pen in the car and heard her talking to him, and to her mother about him. It's not as exciting as I hoped, because besides a lot more "I love you's" than I expected (I was hoping it was just a fuck buddy), the mother fucker is a COKE ADDICT from the gym where she works out. She's been telling me she's been going to 12 step Overeater's Anonymous meetings to deal with her eating issues and it turns out she's been going to Naranon meetings to support him. Apparently she left him for a month but then on Thanksgiving when she was loaded she called him (that's what triggered my investigating) and got things started again. Now I have to go get HIV tested. Not going to do anything just yet - was reading up on it and I want more evidence, I want to see a ther****t/ marriage counselor by myself for awhile and I need to see a divorce lawyer, not to divorce her -yet - but to make sure I'm protected. I think it'll be a few months before I'm ready to confront her, but as much as I hate confrontation, I'm looking forward to this one.
After all those years of her saying how fucked up she is because of her mother cheating on then leaving her father, and giving her mother a hard time about it, now she's doing the same exact thing, and the k**s are just about the same ages as she and her sister were too. I'd be willing to live together but separately for the k**s for awhile, but she'd better get a fucking job because I'm not paying for that bastard - it appears he lives with his parents and I'm not sure if he's working because apparently she always has to buy him lunch and cigarettes (I guess she's smoking again too, hiding it pretty well though).