Ideas for Edging/Mental Edging
These are going to be written for women, because I’m just not very well versed in the ways of male edging. Guys,so sorry.
Hands
*Standard fingers on clit or internally (vaginal or anal)
*Tapping on your clit with your fingertip
*Rubbing yourself over your panties
*Bladder pressing
Toys
*Vibrators
*Dildos
*Anal Plugs
*Whatever your favorite toy is
Objects
*Humping pillows, etc.
*Fucking anything around that house that’s safely insertable (safely meaning it won’t damage anything internally, you *won’t mess up your pH, and you won’t get an infection. Put a condom on it if it’s something like a vegetable. Just be smart… when in doubt, don’t do it, or research more.)
*Using the showerhead
*Under the bath faucet
*Using a moist paintbrush on your clit/nipples
*Edging with toothpaste on your clit (fair warning this will be mildly painful. For those who like a lot of pain, try something like tiger balm or bengay.)
*Edge with numbing cream like oraljel or Dermoplast spray (this might not technically count, because you’ll be too numb to feel anything. Also, warning, Demoplast stings when first applied.)
Assisted Edging (this is a partner edging you)
*Tongue or Fingers
*Vibrator
*Bluetooth vibrator like the we-vibe sync for ldr couples, or couples who want to try this in public/while one is at work.
*Mental Edging
*Watching Porn
*Watching other women/men orgasm
*Listening to an erotic audio book (Check out Cherise Sinclair’s series Masters of the Shadowlands - I literally listened to these books for almost a full calendar year while in my car. Great commutes home!!)
*Read an erotic novel, or erotica online
*Writing your own sexy story
*Ask your Xhamster friends to tease you and turn you on!
*Sexting
*Pleasure your partner without receiving any stimulation yourself
Location
*Change the location of where the denied person is allowed to edge (floor, bed, couch, chair, shower)
*Only allowed to edge while standing
*Can not edge on any furniture
*In public: changing rooms, bathroom stalls, in your car (be careful here, you don’t want to get arrested or make anyone else feel uncomfortable)
Duration
*__ Minutes to try to do as many edges (with cool down between so its not just one continuous edge)
*As long as the denied person wants
*1 hour of continuous edging (even if you hit the edge, you must find a way to not stop touching without going over)
*Send an image of yourself to your partner and they will determine if you need more minutes/edges.
*Edge the entirety of a song/album/tv show/movie
Hands
*Standard fingers on clit or internally (vaginal or anal)
*Tapping on your clit with your fingertip
*Rubbing yourself over your panties
*Bladder pressing
Toys
*Vibrators
*Dildos
*Anal Plugs
*Whatever your favorite toy is
Objects
*Humping pillows, etc.
*Fucking anything around that house that’s safely insertable (safely meaning it won’t damage anything internally, you *won’t mess up your pH, and you won’t get an infection. Put a condom on it if it’s something like a vegetable. Just be smart… when in doubt, don’t do it, or research more.)
*Using the showerhead
*Under the bath faucet
*Using a moist paintbrush on your clit/nipples
*Edging with toothpaste on your clit (fair warning this will be mildly painful. For those who like a lot of pain, try something like tiger balm or bengay.)
*Edge with numbing cream like oraljel or Dermoplast spray (this might not technically count, because you’ll be too numb to feel anything. Also, warning, Demoplast stings when first applied.)
Assisted Edging (this is a partner edging you)
*Tongue or Fingers
*Vibrator
*Bluetooth vibrator like the we-vibe sync for ldr couples, or couples who want to try this in public/while one is at work.
*Mental Edging
*Watching Porn
*Watching other women/men orgasm
*Listening to an erotic audio book (Check out Cherise Sinclair’s series Masters of the Shadowlands - I literally listened to these books for almost a full calendar year while in my car. Great commutes home!!)
*Read an erotic novel, or erotica online
*Writing your own sexy story
*Ask your Xhamster friends to tease you and turn you on!
*Sexting
*Pleasure your partner without receiving any stimulation yourself
Location
*Change the location of where the denied person is allowed to edge (floor, bed, couch, chair, shower)
*Only allowed to edge while standing
*Can not edge on any furniture
*In public: changing rooms, bathroom stalls, in your car (be careful here, you don’t want to get arrested or make anyone else feel uncomfortable)
Duration
*__ Minutes to try to do as many edges (with cool down between so its not just one continuous edge)
*As long as the denied person wants
*1 hour of continuous edging (even if you hit the edge, you must find a way to not stop touching without going over)
*Send an image of yourself to your partner and they will determine if you need more minutes/edges.
*Edge the entirety of a song/album/tv show/movie
5 年 前
after me edging her a couple of times she asked me how about changing roles... well, hm, dunno...oh, umm... Finally i told my self to be the tough and brave guy I want to be and why shouldn´t we try at least once. It was incredible sweet to get weak, to melt like wax. An image sprung to my mind: to offer my throat to the wolf with the red roses* well Iguess what I´m talking about.
*song with Meat Loaf: You Took The Words Right Out Of My Mouth