12 Questions Never to Ask a Lesbian
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Since lesbians are not the norm, but a minority, it's natural to be curious and want to ask questions. However, there are least twelve questions that most lesbians are tired of answering. A few are a bit ignorant or even a little mean, some can seem a bit personal, and others can be a little difficult to answer off the cuff. So, to save lesbians from having to answer them, here are answers to twelve questions they don't want to hear:
1) Have you always been a lesbian?
It's complicated. Although some always knew, many lesbians didn't really discover their sexual orientation until they fell in love with a girl or had their first lesbian sex experience. Also, women tend to become more sexually attracted to other women as they get older.
2) You’re so pretty! Are you sure you're a lesbian?
Looks don't have anything to do with sexual orientation. Some straight women are pretty, and some are not. It's the same with lesbians. Women don't become lesbians because they can't get a man. Women become lesbians because they don't want a man.
3) Which one of you is the man in the relationship?
Neither. Both of us are women. That's kind of the point.
4) Do all lesbians dress like their partners?
Some lesbian partners dress alike because they have the same style and share clothes, but so do female friends and sisters.
5) If lesbians aren't attracted to men, why are they attracted to women who look like men?
This is only confusing to people who assume that looks are the only thing that attracts people to one anothter. Even though you may think some lesbians look like men, they're not,. Women with a mesomorph body type may appear masculine, especially if they also adopt a masculine style of dress, but they are still female.
6) Why do lesbians hate men?
Most lesbians don't hate men. Do you hate everyone you're not sexually attracted to? Man-hating is usually associated with bad personal experiences or far left politics. That includes some lesbians, but also some straight women.
7) Is there any way to tell for sure that a woman is lesbian?
If only. A flannel shirt, short hair, or short fingernails are only clues that she might be a lesbian, not clinchersn. Asking her if she has a boyfriend is probably the most noncommittal way to give her the chance to tell you if she wants to.
8) Do lesbians want to have sex with every attractive woman they meet?
Do straight women want to have sex with every attractive man they meet? The answer is "no." Lesbian women have types, preferences, and standards just like straight women do.
9) So, how do lesbians have sex?
Lots of different ways. This is a list of the favorite ways. There are also two sex acts than only lesbians can perform.
Breast 69
Only two women can engage in breast play with each other simultaneously. You can, of course, face each other and use your hands to cup and caress each other, or you can perform Breast 69. Your lover should lie down on her back with you kneeling above her head. If you lean over to lick and suck her breasts, your breast should be within range of her mouth as well.
Tribbing
Although tribbing can mean one woman rubbing her vulva against any body part of her lover, that doesn't require another woman. Tribbing with vula-to-vulva contact does though. There are numerous tribbing positions, but these are the best for vulva-to-vulva contact. )
10) Why do lesbians use dildos if they don't like penises?
Penises are attached to men, and lesbians aren't attracted to men. Being women, some lesbians do enjoy penetration, but they prefer it be done by another woman. Enter the dildo.
11) Have you ever had real sex?
Since lesbians have more orgasms than straight women, you could make the case lesbian sex is more real than straight sex for women.
12) I’ve always wanted to be a lesbian, but I just can’t give up sex with men, you know?
You don't have to sign a pledge or anything to be a lesbian. Some lesbians don't consider bisexual women one of "them," but there are always going to be judgmental people anywhere you go.
If you found the answers to any questions that you have wondered about, at least one woman has been saved some time and trouble. If you have additional questions or even alternative answers, leave them in the comments.
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This should help me relate to younger women too!