你不是一个失败者

Because in order to be a loser, you would actually have to try at being a winner.

Do you know where I'm going with this? Or are you just too stupid to even figure it out?

You are not a loser because you are too much big of a pussy to actually try at anything.

You don't try to win anything.

No, you just sit back like a pussy and never try to win the heart of a girl or go after that promotion or even stand up for yourself.