Double Domme Session Booked
My double Domme session is booked. It took considerably more planning and calling around than I thought, and I really didn't get much help along the way. For the better part of the week I've been trying to find two willing professional Dommes, coordinate schedules, find a place with equipment, negotiate prices, make reservations, etc...
Most of the women I know work independently, and while paths may cross, a lot of them don't come in regular contact with other pro Dommes. In fact, several of the ladies I spoke with were hesitant to bring a third party into a scene that they didn't personally know. I suppose it's wise to take precautions, but it surprised me that in their line of business they wouldn't network more. Then again, it could be a competition aspect of not wanting to lose a client to other providers. I'm not sure to be honest.
So my first call went to a lady that I have written about before. She's married and lives out in the boonies, but she has a large garage that has been remodeled into a really cool dungeon. The problem boiled down to cock. She knows a TS Mistress who she's worked with before, and they could double me in her home. I told her I'd need a day to think about it.
She sent me an email with a pic attached, and it was an instant turnoff. For me Trans has to be somewhat passable everywhere but below the waist. A regular looking dude cross-dressing won't cut it. Such was the case, so I called her back and said “thanks, but no thanks”.
Another Domme I spoke with drew a hard line with strap-on play, and that's one of my favorite fetishes. Part of my double Domme fantasy is to be spitroasted front and back by a pair of experienced peggers. With this woman it wasn't going to happen. Strike two.
I made several calls to other professionals with similar results. Another variable I hadn't considered was that this is vacation season, and I encountered a couple of “gone fishing” responses. The submissive ache is all over me right now, and I have no desire to wait to scratch the itch. I want the double Domme session in a bad way, I have the money, and I want to get it done sooner rather than later.
Since the local prudes have shut down adult advertising on craigslist and other sex related publications, I have been using an internet site called Eros which has adult sex workers advertising their specialties. The site is legit, and whenever I used it the provider has delivered exactly as advertised. Mainly I use the D/s tab, but I stumbled into the escort ads on a lark and found an interesting solicitation for “light domination”. I thought to myself that “light” isn't exactly what I'm looking for, but the ad was extremely well written, and what caught my eye was that there two women in the accompanying pic. I can't explain it, they just had that look. Plus their page looked like quite a bit of work went into it. I thought it was a long shot, but it never hurts to call. So I did, and I'm glad I did.
It turns out that these ladies do both escorting and domination. They work individually or as a duo. The words “light domination” in the ad were used so as not scare off new clients who might be curious about female domination. It seems they also have plenty of experience with more seasoned sub males like me, and nothing that was discussed on the phone seemed taboo by their standards, especially considering that I wasn't asking for sex.
The woman I spoke with directed me to a website which required a password. I was to enter a portal on that site and complete information, attach a photo (optional), and specify what I was looking for. I wrote three long paragraphs and hit the submit button. While I was there I looked in the gallery which had over 60 pics posted illustrating the kind of kink they offered. There were only silhouette images of the Dommes in very commanding poses. They look like the real deal. Wow. Why haven't I heard of these ladies?
I didn't expect to get a response for a few days, but the next morning there was an email with the domain address of the site I had been directed to. The quick response back was encouraging on several levels. It meant they were serious, and perhaps not as busy as usual. It read as follows, “David, thank you for your interest. Call Natasha at your earliest convenience to schedule a time. You will need to leave a cash deposit applied toward the fee for confirmation.”
I called Natasha as instructed and the first words out of her mouth were, “are you serious?” I assured her that I was, and that I have references from other pro Dommes who would vouch for me. I was met with silence on the other end, then after a few seconds she told me how much it would cost to turn my fantasies into reality. It was roughly double what I had estimated.
Let me briefly explain how negotiating works in these cases. Most reputable Dommes will put their prices in print, and it's up to you to give them a reason why they should accept less. Nearly all of them will come down in price if you make a respectful, reasonable counter-offer. Don't low ball them. For example, if $500 per hour is advertised, you might be able to negotiate $750 for two hours. The Domme clears more money, and you get a cheaper hourly price. Or perhaps it's a slow day of the week (Monday or Tuesday usually) or early in the day (mornings or early afternoon), or any other time when a Domme isn't busy. Let me put it this way, I've never had a Domme turn down $300 an hour on a slow day.
...and such was the case here. I had budgeted $1000 for the session, and it's going to wind up costing $1200 ($600 per Domme for two hours, actually a pretty good deal). They will provide the venue and all toys, devices that will be used. Natasha agreed to the price pending deposit, and flexibility on my end regarding the time and day. She said probably early next week.
Most of the women I know work independently, and while paths may cross, a lot of them don't come in regular contact with other pro Dommes. In fact, several of the ladies I spoke with were hesitant to bring a third party into a scene that they didn't personally know. I suppose it's wise to take precautions, but it surprised me that in their line of business they wouldn't network more. Then again, it could be a competition aspect of not wanting to lose a client to other providers. I'm not sure to be honest.
So my first call went to a lady that I have written about before. She's married and lives out in the boonies, but she has a large garage that has been remodeled into a really cool dungeon. The problem boiled down to cock. She knows a TS Mistress who she's worked with before, and they could double me in her home. I told her I'd need a day to think about it.
She sent me an email with a pic attached, and it was an instant turnoff. For me Trans has to be somewhat passable everywhere but below the waist. A regular looking dude cross-dressing won't cut it. Such was the case, so I called her back and said “thanks, but no thanks”.
Another Domme I spoke with drew a hard line with strap-on play, and that's one of my favorite fetishes. Part of my double Domme fantasy is to be spitroasted front and back by a pair of experienced peggers. With this woman it wasn't going to happen. Strike two.
I made several calls to other professionals with similar results. Another variable I hadn't considered was that this is vacation season, and I encountered a couple of “gone fishing” responses. The submissive ache is all over me right now, and I have no desire to wait to scratch the itch. I want the double Domme session in a bad way, I have the money, and I want to get it done sooner rather than later.
Since the local prudes have shut down adult advertising on craigslist and other sex related publications, I have been using an internet site called Eros which has adult sex workers advertising their specialties. The site is legit, and whenever I used it the provider has delivered exactly as advertised. Mainly I use the D/s tab, but I stumbled into the escort ads on a lark and found an interesting solicitation for “light domination”. I thought to myself that “light” isn't exactly what I'm looking for, but the ad was extremely well written, and what caught my eye was that there two women in the accompanying pic. I can't explain it, they just had that look. Plus their page looked like quite a bit of work went into it. I thought it was a long shot, but it never hurts to call. So I did, and I'm glad I did.
It turns out that these ladies do both escorting and domination. They work individually or as a duo. The words “light domination” in the ad were used so as not scare off new clients who might be curious about female domination. It seems they also have plenty of experience with more seasoned sub males like me, and nothing that was discussed on the phone seemed taboo by their standards, especially considering that I wasn't asking for sex.
The woman I spoke with directed me to a website which required a password. I was to enter a portal on that site and complete information, attach a photo (optional), and specify what I was looking for. I wrote three long paragraphs and hit the submit button. While I was there I looked in the gallery which had over 60 pics posted illustrating the kind of kink they offered. There were only silhouette images of the Dommes in very commanding poses. They look like the real deal. Wow. Why haven't I heard of these ladies?
I didn't expect to get a response for a few days, but the next morning there was an email with the domain address of the site I had been directed to. The quick response back was encouraging on several levels. It meant they were serious, and perhaps not as busy as usual. It read as follows, “David, thank you for your interest. Call Natasha at your earliest convenience to schedule a time. You will need to leave a cash deposit applied toward the fee for confirmation.”
I called Natasha as instructed and the first words out of her mouth were, “are you serious?” I assured her that I was, and that I have references from other pro Dommes who would vouch for me. I was met with silence on the other end, then after a few seconds she told me how much it would cost to turn my fantasies into reality. It was roughly double what I had estimated.
Let me briefly explain how negotiating works in these cases. Most reputable Dommes will put their prices in print, and it's up to you to give them a reason why they should accept less. Nearly all of them will come down in price if you make a respectful, reasonable counter-offer. Don't low ball them. For example, if $500 per hour is advertised, you might be able to negotiate $750 for two hours. The Domme clears more money, and you get a cheaper hourly price. Or perhaps it's a slow day of the week (Monday or Tuesday usually) or early in the day (mornings or early afternoon), or any other time when a Domme isn't busy. Let me put it this way, I've never had a Domme turn down $300 an hour on a slow day.
...and such was the case here. I had budgeted $1000 for the session, and it's going to wind up costing $1200 ($600 per Domme for two hours, actually a pretty good deal). They will provide the venue and all toys, devices that will be used. Natasha agreed to the price pending deposit, and flexibility on my end regarding the time and day. She said probably early next week.
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