Episode #23 - Why women don't talk to men
Member name: pumpher45
2/4/25
Dec 26, 2024
M̲e̲: Hi. Do I know you somehow? I'm just trying to figure out who you are or what's relevant per your friend request?14:32
M̲e̲: I must admit, there's a strange irony here. You expect people to not only read your own profile, but to follow the rules on it, too. Your profile begins by saying: "If you have no content of your OWN( NOT JUST WEB) DONT ask to be friends...". You expect other people to read and obey your profile, yet ironically, you don't even practice what you preach.
* First, my profile contains no content of my own (besides my profile pic). So, I'm getting mixed signals right there, being that it's my understanding that you're not interested in anyone who doesn't have their own uploaded content.
Next, I see nothing at all described within your profile that makes even the slightest mention of you seeking online friendships and chat (pen pal) partners. Everything on your profile is entirely geared sexually and seems to be polar opposite of what my own profile describes or offers.
* Lastly, my profile explains to the reader that I am NOT a friend collector and will NOT add random strangers to my friend list (that would take a long time to know people and to build an actual friendship).
Very confusing set of contradictions there. Please explain?14:32
Jan 4
M̲e̲: You were seen here 5 hours ago. I still await a reply....12:04
Jan 30
M̲e̲: I again see you were last signed on here three days ago. And still I await...14:31
H̲i̲m̲: This user blocked you. You are not allowed to send private messages to this user.
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* For the record, he has removed profile wall comments, in an effort to cover-up his silly logic and behavior. The original wall comments said this:
"A very strange person pumpher45 is. He friend requested me on or around 12/25/24. Today is 1/18/25. He doesn't bother to read my profile, but then blindly tries to friend requesting me (even though my profile tells him contrary). So then when I contact him weeks ago on 12/26/24 and ask him a few simple and polite questions, he goes mute on me and refuses to respond back. I have even seen him signed on here on 1/4/25 and followed-up with another reply that went ignored by him. He then disappears from the site for a solid two weeks now.
His very own profile says (quote): "If you have no content of your OWN (NOT JUST WEB) DONT ask to be friends...".
I find it massively ironic that judging by that profile comment, he expects everyone to be stopping by his profile, reading it through and following the outlined rules of expectations; yet he cannot even play by his very own same set of rules, as he goes around not reading a profile, overriding someone's criteria, friend requesting and then ignoring someone. How does this logic add up? He expects everyone else to read, comprehend and follow HIS profile rules by NOT asking a friend request if they don't have their own content; yet HE friend requests other people and doesn't even read or practice what he preaches. Hypocrisy much?
This fiasco has been going on for over three weeks now for me to simply receive a reply of some kind of answers, relevance, determination, apology or closure...all to no avail, as of yet."
* Also for transparency purposes, his profile says this much, before he tries to go in and edit it out to hide the original (copied & pasted):
"About me: If you have no content of your OWN (NOT JUST WEB) DONT ask to be friends..."
Cross-compare that against him automatically trying to friend request me without even bothering to make contact with me, read profile, etc... . Hypocrite! Rude!
2/4/25
Dec 26, 2024
M̲e̲: Hi. Do I know you somehow? I'm just trying to figure out who you are or what's relevant per your friend request?14:32
M̲e̲: I must admit, there's a strange irony here. You expect people to not only read your own profile, but to follow the rules on it, too. Your profile begins by saying: "If you have no content of your OWN( NOT JUST WEB) DONT ask to be friends...". You expect other people to read and obey your profile, yet ironically, you don't even practice what you preach.
* First, my profile contains no content of my own (besides my profile pic). So, I'm getting mixed signals right there, being that it's my understanding that you're not interested in anyone who doesn't have their own uploaded content.
Next, I see nothing at all described within your profile that makes even the slightest mention of you seeking online friendships and chat (pen pal) partners. Everything on your profile is entirely geared sexually and seems to be polar opposite of what my own profile describes or offers.
* Lastly, my profile explains to the reader that I am NOT a friend collector and will NOT add random strangers to my friend list (that would take a long time to know people and to build an actual friendship).
Very confusing set of contradictions there. Please explain?14:32
Jan 4
M̲e̲: You were seen here 5 hours ago. I still await a reply....12:04
Jan 30
M̲e̲: I again see you were last signed on here three days ago. And still I await...14:31
H̲i̲m̲: This user blocked you. You are not allowed to send private messages to this user.
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* For the record, he has removed profile wall comments, in an effort to cover-up his silly logic and behavior. The original wall comments said this:
"A very strange person pumpher45 is. He friend requested me on or around 12/25/24. Today is 1/18/25. He doesn't bother to read my profile, but then blindly tries to friend requesting me (even though my profile tells him contrary). So then when I contact him weeks ago on 12/26/24 and ask him a few simple and polite questions, he goes mute on me and refuses to respond back. I have even seen him signed on here on 1/4/25 and followed-up with another reply that went ignored by him. He then disappears from the site for a solid two weeks now.
His very own profile says (quote): "If you have no content of your OWN (NOT JUST WEB) DONT ask to be friends...".
I find it massively ironic that judging by that profile comment, he expects everyone to be stopping by his profile, reading it through and following the outlined rules of expectations; yet he cannot even play by his very own same set of rules, as he goes around not reading a profile, overriding someone's criteria, friend requesting and then ignoring someone. How does this logic add up? He expects everyone else to read, comprehend and follow HIS profile rules by NOT asking a friend request if they don't have their own content; yet HE friend requests other people and doesn't even read or practice what he preaches. Hypocrisy much?
This fiasco has been going on for over three weeks now for me to simply receive a reply of some kind of answers, relevance, determination, apology or closure...all to no avail, as of yet."
* Also for transparency purposes, his profile says this much, before he tries to go in and edit it out to hide the original (copied & pasted):
"About me: If you have no content of your OWN (NOT JUST WEB) DONT ask to be friends..."
Cross-compare that against him automatically trying to friend request me without even bothering to make contact with me, read profile, etc... . Hypocrite! Rude!
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