Dominant v. Dominate

I don't know if this bothers anyone else, but it's hard to take someone seriously in the BDSM lifestyle when they interchange dominant and dominate. I see both men and women making usage mistakes frequently with these words. Incorrect: "I am seeking a dominate Mistress". No, you're seeking a dominant Mistress. Incorrect: "I want to dominant my wife". No, you want to dominate your wife. Below are definitions, synonyms, pronunciation, and sentence examples if you need help, or just keep using the words incorrectly if your purpose is to torture the literate.

Dominate [dom-uh-neyt]
Verb
have a commanding influence on; exercise control over.
synonyms: control, influence, exercise control over, command, be in command of, be in charge of, rule, govern, direct, have ascendancy over, have mastery over; head up, be in the driver's seat, be at the helm of, rule the roost (in), wear the pants (in), have someone in one's hip pocket
"A Mistress will dominate her slave."

Dominant (dom-uh-nuh nt)
Adjective
most important, powerful, or influential.
synonyms: presiding, ruling, governing, controlling, commanding, ascendant, supreme, authoritative
assertive, authoritative, forceful, domineering, commanding, controlling, pushy
"The cuckold was humiliated by his dominant hotwife."