Domme Mom
I stumbled across an interesting profile on another site yesterday. It was a rather pedestrian looking page in many respects. The owner was a divorced dominant female in her 30's looking for a domestic slave to clean house and do yard work. The profile didn't contain a lot of details, videos, or pictures; however, there were a few lengthy blog posts which I read with fascination. If those posts were true, then I've been missing out on a whole new way of thinking about motherhood and Femdom.
Most of the dominant women that I know go to great lengths to shelter their c***dren from their lifestyles. They make sure the k**s are out of the house when they play. They keep their bondage gear, toys, and outfits under lock and key. They try to appear as "normal" every day mothers so that their c***dren don't get the slightest inclination that they have a kinky side. I understand why they do this, and realize that motherhood always takes priority. I'm not judging Dommes or anyone else who keeps their private lives private.
But what if a Femdom chooses to live her lifestyle openly in front of her k**s? The lady on the profile I read was not only open about her lifestyle at home, but has made a conscious decision that her daughters would be raised as a dominant females. My initial reaction was shock and horror, but as I continued to read I admired what she was doing and how she was going about it. Most of what she was doing to could be described as confidence building, but there were also other things that would raise eyebrows in the real world. Also, for the past four years she's been home schooling them, and she doesn't envision them going back to public schools until they decide they want to go study at a university when they are that age.
So what does a female supremacy household look like? Let's start with the oldest daughter who is 17, and has been aware of mom's lifestyle since she was 13. She has fully embraced her dominance and has an older college aged submissive boyfriend. Her sub doesn't have much in the way of expendable income; however, he has experience cleaning pools, and so as part of the homage to family of females it falls upon him to come to the house several times a week to keep the pool clean and functioning well. (Basically, any men who enter this household have to contribute in some way.)
However, there is one other condition that is required of the young man for dating, and this part blew me away. Mother flipped the script, and put the onus of birth control on the sub, not her daughter. No, the boy didn't have to carry around a pocket full of condoms, rather he had to wear a metal chastity device that mom purchased and mother also kept the key. She'll states that she'll give the key to her daughter on her 18th birthday as a rite of passage into womanhood. Mother supervises them when they are at home, but has no fears of her daughter getting pregnant. It's shear brilliance.
The younger daughter is more shy and introverted. The only thing that is mentioned on the blog about her is that she's trying to get her to come out of her shell and take charge more. Whenenver she has a domestic sub around the house, she has the younger daughter inspect their work, give orders, and of course tell mommy if they screw up. I'm not sure if nature isn't sending signals that her younger offspring is more naturally submissive, but if she is then mom is trying to change that.
Which brings me to a hypothetical question. What if she had boys? Would she try to raise them to be submissive or dominant like their mother? My thoughts are that she probably would have raised them to be submissive because she really believes in female supremacy.
Is this ethical parenting? I think so, as long as the emphasis isn't centered on the sexual dynamic of Femdom with u******e females. Controlling men, expecting them to win you over, requiring a respectful demeanor, etc...are skills that will serve them well in adulthood. Plus they will have a unique outlook on female domination without fumbling through years of trail and error. They have the ultimate trustworthy resource in their mother.
Most of the dominant women that I know go to great lengths to shelter their c***dren from their lifestyles. They make sure the k**s are out of the house when they play. They keep their bondage gear, toys, and outfits under lock and key. They try to appear as "normal" every day mothers so that their c***dren don't get the slightest inclination that they have a kinky side. I understand why they do this, and realize that motherhood always takes priority. I'm not judging Dommes or anyone else who keeps their private lives private.
But what if a Femdom chooses to live her lifestyle openly in front of her k**s? The lady on the profile I read was not only open about her lifestyle at home, but has made a conscious decision that her daughters would be raised as a dominant females. My initial reaction was shock and horror, but as I continued to read I admired what she was doing and how she was going about it. Most of what she was doing to could be described as confidence building, but there were also other things that would raise eyebrows in the real world. Also, for the past four years she's been home schooling them, and she doesn't envision them going back to public schools until they decide they want to go study at a university when they are that age.
So what does a female supremacy household look like? Let's start with the oldest daughter who is 17, and has been aware of mom's lifestyle since she was 13. She has fully embraced her dominance and has an older college aged submissive boyfriend. Her sub doesn't have much in the way of expendable income; however, he has experience cleaning pools, and so as part of the homage to family of females it falls upon him to come to the house several times a week to keep the pool clean and functioning well. (Basically, any men who enter this household have to contribute in some way.)
However, there is one other condition that is required of the young man for dating, and this part blew me away. Mother flipped the script, and put the onus of birth control on the sub, not her daughter. No, the boy didn't have to carry around a pocket full of condoms, rather he had to wear a metal chastity device that mom purchased and mother also kept the key. She'll states that she'll give the key to her daughter on her 18th birthday as a rite of passage into womanhood. Mother supervises them when they are at home, but has no fears of her daughter getting pregnant. It's shear brilliance.
The younger daughter is more shy and introverted. The only thing that is mentioned on the blog about her is that she's trying to get her to come out of her shell and take charge more. Whenenver she has a domestic sub around the house, she has the younger daughter inspect their work, give orders, and of course tell mommy if they screw up. I'm not sure if nature isn't sending signals that her younger offspring is more naturally submissive, but if she is then mom is trying to change that.
Which brings me to a hypothetical question. What if she had boys? Would she try to raise them to be submissive or dominant like their mother? My thoughts are that she probably would have raised them to be submissive because she really believes in female supremacy.
Is this ethical parenting? I think so, as long as the emphasis isn't centered on the sexual dynamic of Femdom with u******e females. Controlling men, expecting them to win you over, requiring a respectful demeanor, etc...are skills that will serve them well in adulthood. Plus they will have a unique outlook on female domination without fumbling through years of trail and error. They have the ultimate trustworthy resource in their mother.
9 年 前
