Pulling Back the Curtain
The pro Domme I've been working for has been out of town this week. It's a busy time of year for her, and she has to balance her schedule with her family. She spent Christmas with her sister's family in New York, and today she's flying to London. It amazes me how many ultra rich clients she has who pick up her airfare and traveling expenses in addition to paying for session time with her. She travels about a third of the month, so I have found myself spending quite a bit of time at DFW Airport recently. While there is fantasy and fetish fulfillment associated with her vocation, there are also a lot of logistic details that go into making scenes happen. I am one of several submissives who help make things happen for her.
The life of a dominatrix isn't as glamorous as it may seem. When someone calls or emails to set up a session, there is a lot of preparation that goes into it. I would estimate that she has more than $10,000 invested in fetish wear. She has the ability to dress for any fantasy: librarian, cop, school girl, nurse, leather bitch, military, equestrian, vinyl Domme, office boss, nun, etc...She spends quite a bit of time on her hair and nails as well, and for the right price she can be a blonde, brunette or redhead for your session. My personal favorite look for her is the classic black leather outfit with thigh high boots that add about four inches to her height. The look is intimidating and she knows it.
The best dominatrices have also been painstaking trained for safety. They can inflict brutal pain without causing permanent damage. Most of her clients like to take a small trophy home such as a red ass or small marks on other areas of their bodies. She also has married clients who cannot take home any evidence of BDSM activities. She knows which implement to specifically use depending on the client. It's not a "one size fits all" approach to domination.
Some of her favorite (and easiest) clients are the ones who have a fetish they want fulfilled. For example she has a regular client who wants nothing more than foot fetish sessions from her. He is obsessed with fondling and sucking her toes, and she tells me the only thing she doesn't like is that it tickles at times. Crossdressers don't take a lot effort either. Dress them and tell them what they want to hear. Easy money.
She won't do certain fetishes. Anything involving s**t is out, although she will use a strapon if the client provides the dildo (for an additional charge, of course). She won't brand or scar anyone, or really do anything that results in permanent damage. She has a sharp blade that she uses with one particular client who has a cutting fetish. She wears latex gloves and makes tiny incisions all over his body. That's not the painful part. She then cleans the wounds with hydrogen peroxide (at his request). This may sound extreme, but there is no actual permanent damage. He always returns to her with an unmarked canvas.
However, she also has clients who have very detailed fantasies. I am one who falls into this category. I enjoy scenes where bondage, humiliation, pain, tease, denial, and psychodrama all mix together in subspace. I like a Domme who will push the boundaries of my limits. It's an amazing experience when a Domme thoroughly fucks your mind. Also, I get a deep sense of fulfillment when I feel like my partner is enjoying the scene as much as I am.
Does she enjoy her work? Of course. She's a sadist and control freak. She wouldn't do it if she didn't enjoy it, but there are things about her work that she doesn't enjoy. Something she tells me almost every time I see her is that most of her clients try to top from the bottom. For her it's an immediate buzz kill that sucks the joy from her job. She is both a lifestyle Domme and professional dominatrix, and she tells me her private sessions bring her a thousand times more enjoyment than what she does as a pro. She doesn't ever feel the sense of power and control with clients that she does with her personal submissives.
As her personal lackey that means I've crossed over to the lifestyle part of her world.
The life of a dominatrix isn't as glamorous as it may seem. When someone calls or emails to set up a session, there is a lot of preparation that goes into it. I would estimate that she has more than $10,000 invested in fetish wear. She has the ability to dress for any fantasy: librarian, cop, school girl, nurse, leather bitch, military, equestrian, vinyl Domme, office boss, nun, etc...She spends quite a bit of time on her hair and nails as well, and for the right price she can be a blonde, brunette or redhead for your session. My personal favorite look for her is the classic black leather outfit with thigh high boots that add about four inches to her height. The look is intimidating and she knows it.
The best dominatrices have also been painstaking trained for safety. They can inflict brutal pain without causing permanent damage. Most of her clients like to take a small trophy home such as a red ass or small marks on other areas of their bodies. She also has married clients who cannot take home any evidence of BDSM activities. She knows which implement to specifically use depending on the client. It's not a "one size fits all" approach to domination.
Some of her favorite (and easiest) clients are the ones who have a fetish they want fulfilled. For example she has a regular client who wants nothing more than foot fetish sessions from her. He is obsessed with fondling and sucking her toes, and she tells me the only thing she doesn't like is that it tickles at times. Crossdressers don't take a lot effort either. Dress them and tell them what they want to hear. Easy money.
She won't do certain fetishes. Anything involving s**t is out, although she will use a strapon if the client provides the dildo (for an additional charge, of course). She won't brand or scar anyone, or really do anything that results in permanent damage. She has a sharp blade that she uses with one particular client who has a cutting fetish. She wears latex gloves and makes tiny incisions all over his body. That's not the painful part. She then cleans the wounds with hydrogen peroxide (at his request). This may sound extreme, but there is no actual permanent damage. He always returns to her with an unmarked canvas.
However, she also has clients who have very detailed fantasies. I am one who falls into this category. I enjoy scenes where bondage, humiliation, pain, tease, denial, and psychodrama all mix together in subspace. I like a Domme who will push the boundaries of my limits. It's an amazing experience when a Domme thoroughly fucks your mind. Also, I get a deep sense of fulfillment when I feel like my partner is enjoying the scene as much as I am.
Does she enjoy her work? Of course. She's a sadist and control freak. She wouldn't do it if she didn't enjoy it, but there are things about her work that she doesn't enjoy. Something she tells me almost every time I see her is that most of her clients try to top from the bottom. For her it's an immediate buzz kill that sucks the joy from her job. She is both a lifestyle Domme and professional dominatrix, and she tells me her private sessions bring her a thousand times more enjoyment than what she does as a pro. She doesn't ever feel the sense of power and control with clients that she does with her personal submissives.
As her personal lackey that means I've crossed over to the lifestyle part of her world.
7 年 前
