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Has sex gotten boring as of late? Looking for ways to increase sexual arousal and spice things up in the bedroom? Come on; it’s a new year. Why not venture into uncharted sexual waters to ring in 2024? If you’re feeling adventurous, I’ve got the perfect thing for you and your sexual partner: rimming. Despite the undeniable pleasure that can arise from butt play, many people still clench unnecessarily with even the thought of something foreign getting close to their anus. While it’s true that your backside is involved in some pretty unsexy things like trips to the bathroom and colonoscopies, i… 阅读更多内容

We all know that age-old misconception that lube is to only be used if you have a problem like dryness, so let’s start out by agreeing to banish that thinking! Let’s say it together…LUBE MAKES SEX BETTER! No matter your age or gender, lube offers less friction, and smoother and wetter sex….which, as we all know that no matter the type of sex you like or sexual activities you’re into – wetter is always better! The Best Positions/Sexy Situations to Try with Water-Based Lubricants In case you forgot, what’s great about water-based sex lubes is that they’re easy to clean up (and to wash out of cl… 阅读更多内容

Myth #1: You Can Always Tell Someone’s Sexual Orientation Just By Looking At Them Many people think they can intuit someone else’s sexuality from looks alone. In popular slang, this is known as “gaydar.” Multiple studies have been conducted to determine whether there’s anything to this idea. Research suggests that there is a kernel of truth to the concept of gaydar in the sense that people can guess someone’s sexual orientation at a rate greater than chance. However, the accuracy of these judgments is much lower than you might think. Most studies are set up in such a way that people can only c… 阅读更多内容

Most animals have a mating season. They only do it at specific times of year that coincide with fertile periods. By contrast, humans are what scientists call “continuous breeders,” meaning that we’re DTF all year long. We can do it any time, any place. However, while we don’t have a limited calendar for sex, human sexual behavior still has a seasonality to it. It turns out that people consistently have more sex at certain times of year, and less at others. Specifically, what the data shows is that summertime seems to coincide with a peak in sexual activity. So what’s the deal with that?… 阅读更多内容

I was strolling through the crowded streets of Berlin, lost in my thoughts and enjoying the vibrant atmosphere. The sun was setting, casting a warm glow on the historic buildings and bustling market stalls. I was on the lookout for some traditional German cuisine, but little did I know that the evening would take a rather unexpected turn. As I wandered through the narrow cobblestone alleyways, I bumped into a striking stranger with an air of mystery around him. His rugged good looks and piercing blue eyes caught my attention immediately. Our eyes met for a fleeting moment, and the stran… 阅读更多内容

As you enter the dimly lit Berlin, Germany Bar, you can't help but be captivated by the sultry summer evening. The scent of Poppers fills the air as you scan the room, searching for something that catches your interest. Your eyes meet those of a tall, dark-haired German with piercing blue eyes and an air of confidence. He's RAINFORESTMAN, and he seems to be staring right through you, as if he can see every hidden desire and secret longing you possess. You exchange a few words, and you're immediately drawn to his charm and wit. There's something about him that makes you want to surrender to… 阅读更多内容

Bathhouse Heat KAWIKA had always been curious about the all-male bathhouse on the outskirts of town. He'd heard whispers of it from his Berlin friends, tales of sweaty, anonymous encounters and illicit desires fulfilled. Tonight, he decided to see for himself what the fuss was about. As he stepped inside, the heat and moisture hit him like a wet blanket. The room was dimly lit, with shadows dancing on the walls and the sound of water splashing in the background. He made his way to the showers, stripping off his clothes as he went. He took a moment to let the warm water run over his body… 阅读更多内容

The hanky code is a color code system that men can use to indicate preferred fetish or sexual preferences by wearing one or more color handkerchiefs in their left or right pockets. • In gay culture a man will often wear his keys on his left to indicate he prefers to take the top or dominant role, or on the right to indicate he prefers the bottom or submissive role. In the leather community an armband worn on the left or the right arm is used to indicate the same preference.… 阅读更多内容

A color handkerchief may be worn, typically in a back pocket, to express more specific interests following a hanky code, following the same left Dominant, right submissive practice.… 阅读更多内容

A leather armband or a leather wrist band worn on the left signify a man who identifies himself as a Dominant or Top, and on the right by a man who identifies himself as a submissive or bottom.… 阅读更多内容

A leather harness has become a popular optional part of leather gear in more recent years, may be worn when one isn’t wearing a shirt. Harnesses including chains are also an option. Shirtless is typically a popular option in bars and at casual events. Harnesses are also functional for leather play. Traditionally chest or upper body harnesses were preferred by Dominants, harnesses which extended below the waist were most commonly worn by sub missives. Today newer style harnesses, such as a bulldog harness, may be worn by both.… 阅读更多内容

Beyond the sensual masculine appeal of leather, wearing leather boots, accessories and gear is an expression of one’s identity with the leather community. I am a gay Leatherman. I’ve participated in Pride events since roughly 2000, in cities from Houston, Texas to San Francisco, and in Europe as well as leather-oriented street fairs like Folsom, and Folsom Europe. I’ve marched in leather contingents at Pride, and I think they’re a grand old time. As a subculture, leather has its own ethics: an acceptance of variant sexuality, an emphasis on consent, the transformation of pain int… 阅读更多内容

There's a Lot More to Being a Leatherman Than You'd Expect “People have this idea about leather—they think S&M. And while S&M can be a part of leather, that’s not leather itself. Leather is a community first.” In gay culture, a Leatherman is someone who identifies with the Leather subculture. The leather subculture emerged post-WWII, when combat veterans bonded in motorcycle clubs in what Q described as a “continuation of… camaraderie.” The hypermasculinity and ruggedness that leather promotes appealed to those dissatisfied with stereotypes depicting gay men as effeminate. I A… 阅读更多内容